November 2023

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RB88
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Re: November 2023

AnnaBC wrote: โ†‘Fri Nov 10, 2023 11:23 am Hi all, I went for a scan and a blood test yesterday. Results were all okay and I am starting the lubion injection and pessaries tomorrow morning. I have another blood test next week and if all okay frozen embryo transfer will be on the 16th. I haven't done the injections in a while so a bit nervous. Last time they only prescribed me the pessaries but my body wasn't absorbing them properly and they cancelled the cycle, the day before the transfer. I was devastated. I am hoping everything will be okay this time.

Good luck to everyone. :)

p.s. I am not familiar with all of the abbreviations you are using
Good luck :)

The abbreviations get confusing at times....FET = Frozen Embryo Transfer (I believe), TWW = Two Week Wait, ER = Egg Retrieval..i had to google them a lot of the time :lol:
First time IVF
ER: Aug23; 33 Eggs, 9 Embryos
FET: 06.11.23
Applecart
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Re: November 2023

Today was my OTD (official test date) and we got a positive. I am an early tester and have been testing daily since day 7 on cheap tests (I had a chemical last round so paranoid). Long way to go but feeling happy to still be positive today.
How is the tww going for you Banana29? Fingers crossed for transfers on 16th AnnaBC. Injections arenโ€™t great but hopefully will make a difference to you. We added those on our first FET and this time have added inhixa too.
Fresh Transfer Aug 2020 BFP ๐Ÿ’™
FET #1 Nov 22 MMC
FET #2 June 23 CP
FET #3 Oct 23 MMC
Banana29
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Re: November 2023

How is everyone doing?
Iโ€™m 8dp and decided to take a test this morning.
Unfortunately the test was faulty ๐Ÿ˜‚ Iโ€™ve used clear blue early detection.
I think Iโ€™ll wait until the actual test day now
Nov 2022-10eggs collected, 9 mature, 6 fertilised, 3-five day blastocyst
Dec 2022-1st fresh cycle Ivf/icsi -BFN
May 2023- 2nd fet - BFN
Nov 2023 - 3rd fet -BFN
Banana29
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Re: November 2023

Applecart wrote: โ†‘Sat Nov 11, 2023 8:34 pm Today was my OTD (official test date) and we got a positive. I am an early tester and have been testing daily since day 7 on cheap tests (I had a chemical last round so paranoid). Long way to go but feeling happy to still be positive today.
How is the tww going for you Banana29? Fingers crossed for transfers on 16th AnnaBC. Injections arenโ€™t great but hopefully will make a difference to you. We added those on our first FET and this time have added inhixa too.
Congratulations Applecart thatโ€™s a really good news
Nov 2022-10eggs collected, 9 mature, 6 fertilised, 3-five day blastocyst
Dec 2022-1st fresh cycle Ivf/icsi -BFN
May 2023- 2nd fet - BFN
Nov 2023 - 3rd fet -BFN
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

Applecart wrote: โ†‘Sat Nov 11, 2023 8:34 pm Today was my OTD (official test date) and we got a positive. I am an early tester and have been testing daily since day 7 on cheap tests (I had a chemical last round so paranoid). Long way to go but feeling happy to still be positive today.
How is the tww going for you Banana29? Fingers crossed for transfers on 16th AnnaBC. Injections arenโ€™t great but hopefully will make a difference to you. We added those on our first FET and this time have added inhixa too.
Congratulations Applecart!
My transfer is next week and OTD in December ๐Ÿคž
Last edited by LindaLu on Mon Nov 13, 2023 6:32 pm, edited 1 time in total.
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

Banana29 wrote: โ†‘Sat Nov 11, 2023 8:35 pm How is everyone doing?
Iโ€™m 8dp and decided to take a test this morning.
Unfortunately the test was faulty ๐Ÿ˜‚ Iโ€™ve used clear blue early detection.
I think Iโ€™ll wait until the actual test day now
Fingers crossed Banana29!
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

L478 wrote: โ†‘Mon Nov 06, 2023 8:35 pm Hi everyone, had my first stim injection tonight so Iโ€™m officially started. This will be our third round โ€ฆ good luck everyone for November cycles. Iโ€™ll be keeping my fingers crossed for you all!
Thank you! My transfer is next Tuesday :shock:
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

Sooty and swept away wrote: โ†‘Mon Nov 06, 2023 10:09 pm Hi all. Hope you don't mind me joining here.
Looking to start meds on 13th Nov for a December transfer
I'm a second time surrogate .this will be my 4th ivf journey after having 2 rounds of IVF for myself then one as a surrogate so far . Xx
You're really lucky that IVF worked for you. I wish you good luck ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
RB88
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Re: November 2023

Applecart wrote: โ†‘Sat Nov 11, 2023 8:34 pm Today was my OTD (official test date) and we got a positive. I am an early tester and have been testing daily since day 7 on cheap tests (I had a chemical last round so paranoid). Long way to go but feeling happy to still be positive today.
How is the tww going for you Banana29? Fingers crossed for transfers on 16th AnnaBC. Injections arenโ€™t great but hopefully will make a difference to you. We added those on our first FET and this time have added inhixa too.
Glad to hear the good news so far :mrgreen:

I feel slightly guilty in caving and testing early (my OTD is Monday). I've been getting quite a few aches/cramps that felt like period pains but less intense, however they ramped up yesterday and once I got home from work I caved and took a early test which showed as positive. So I'm going to try and not test again until Monday now and try to not get my hopes up.

If you don't mind me asking, what date after transfer did you realise you had a chemical pregnancy? I'm all new to this so it's a bit of an unknown territory.
First time IVF
ER: Aug23; 33 Eggs, 9 Embryos
FET: 06.11.23
Applecart
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Re: November 2023

RB88 wrote: โ†‘Tue Nov 14, 2023 11:09 am
Applecart wrote: โ†‘Sat Nov 11, 2023 8:34 pm Today was my OTD (official test date) and we got a positive. I am an early tester and have been testing daily since day 7 on cheap tests (I had a chemical last round so paranoid). Long way to go but feeling happy to still be positive today.
How is the tww going for you Banana29? Fingers crossed for transfers on 16th AnnaBC. Injections arenโ€™t great but hopefully will make a difference to you. We added those on our first FET and this time have added inhixa too.
Glad to hear the good news so far :mrgreen:

I feel slightly guilty in caving and testing early (my OTD is Monday). I've been getting quite a few aches/cramps that felt like period pains but less intense, however they ramped up yesterday and once I got home from work I caved and took a early test which showed as positive. So I'm going to try and not test again until Monday now and try to not get my hopes up.

If you don't mind me asking, what date after transfer did you realise you had a chemical pregnancy? I'm all new to this so it's a bit of an unknown territory.

Well I will make you feel better about testing early! I always test early. I lasted till day 7 this time. Last time when it was a chemical I was tested from around the same time. I tested every other day from day 5 (or maybe ever other) and every day it just got lighter and lighter x
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FET #2 June 23 CP
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Applecart
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Re: November 2023

Ps great news about the positive RB88.
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FET #2 June 23 CP
FET #3 Oct 23 MMC
AnnaBC
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Re: November 2023

Applecart wrote: โ†‘Sat Nov 11, 2023 8:34 pm Today was my OTD (official test date) and we got a positive. I am an early tester and have been testing daily since day 7 on cheap tests (I had a chemical last round so paranoid). Long way to go but feeling happy to still be positive today.
How is the tww going for you Banana29? Fingers crossed for transfers on 16th AnnaBC. Injections arenโ€™t great but hopefully will make a difference to you. We added those on our first FET and this time have added inhixa too.
Congratulations! When is your first scan?
I am finding the injections difficult at times but trying to take each day as it comes. I feel quite tired and finding it difficult to get out of bed some mornings. I don't know if these are side effects from the oestrogen and progesteron. I am waiting for a phone call from the nurses this morning to let me know if the blood test is okay and if we can go ahead with the transfer tomorrow.
Applecart
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Re: November 2023

Thanks AnnaBC. Scan is on the 6th Dec so still 3 weeks to wait. My last scan was just under 3 weeks after test date whereas this one will be 3 weeks and 4 days! Those 5 extra days seem a long time! The meds definitely make me more tired and I know what you mean about the injections. Iโ€™m struggling to find spots where itโ€™s not bruised and sore at the moment. I just take it a day at a time too and keep thinking about why I am doing them x
Fresh Transfer Aug 2020 BFP ๐Ÿ’™
FET #1 Nov 22 MMC
FET #2 June 23 CP
FET #3 Oct 23 MMC
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

My transfer on Tuesday... I really hope it will end up with a baby.
Today my younger brother and his wife announced that their 3rd child is on way. She's 14 weeks.
I feel like a total loser. I really feel low of myself right now.
We just had our baby's funeral in August.
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

Applecart wrote: โ†‘Wed Nov 15, 2023 5:24 pm Thanks AnnaBC. Scan is on the 6th Dec so still 3 weeks to wait. My last scan was just under 3 weeks after test date whereas this one will be 3 weeks and 4 days! Those 5 extra days seem a long time! The meds definitely make me more tired and I know what you mean about the injections. Iโ€™m struggling to find spots where itโ€™s not bruised and sore at the moment. I just take it a day at a time too and keep thinking about why I am doing them x
I still have discoloured skin after 5 months of inhixa
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
RB88
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Re: November 2023

LindaLu wrote: โ†‘Wed Nov 15, 2023 7:27 pm My transfer on Tuesday... I really hope it will end up with a baby.
Today my younger brother and his wife announced that their 3rd child is on way. She's 14 weeks.
I feel like a total loser. I really feel low of myself right now.
We just had our baby's funeral in August.
Good luck for your transfer.

I can't imagine what you must be going through with that news, try to be kind to yourself and do things you love doing the next few weeks.
First time IVF
ER: Aug23; 33 Eggs, 9 Embryos
FET: 06.11.23
RB88
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Re: November 2023

Applecart wrote: โ†‘Wed Nov 15, 2023 5:24 pm Thanks AnnaBC. Scan is on the 6th Dec so still 3 weeks to wait. My last scan was just under 3 weeks after test date whereas this one will be 3 weeks and 4 days! Those 5 extra days seem a long time! The meds definitely make me more tired and I know what you mean about the injections. Iโ€™m struggling to find spots where itโ€™s not bruised and sore at the moment. I just take it a day at a time too and keep thinking about why I am doing them x
Is that scan with Care? I wasn't sure of the process after the TWW (if stays a positive). Or how the treatment differs at all for private vs NHS funded cycles.
First time IVF
ER: Aug23; 33 Eggs, 9 Embryos
FET: 06.11.23
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

RB88 wrote: โ†‘Thu Nov 16, 2023 12:18 pm
LindaLu wrote: โ†‘Wed Nov 15, 2023 7:27 pm My transfer on Tuesday... I really hope it will end up with a baby.
Today my younger brother and his wife announced that their 3rd child is on way. She's 14 weeks.
I feel like a total loser. I really feel low of myself right now.
We just had our baby's funeral in August.
Good luck for your transfer.

I can't imagine what you must be going through with that news, try to be kind to yourself and do things you love doing the next few weeks.
Thank you, I will try ๐ŸŒท
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
Applecart
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Re: November 2023

RB88 wrote: โ†‘Thu Nov 16, 2023 12:20 pm
Applecart wrote: โ†‘Wed Nov 15, 2023 5:24 pm Thanks AnnaBC. Scan is on the 6th Dec so still 3 weeks to wait. My last scan was just under 3 weeks after test date whereas this one will be 3 weeks and 4 days! Those 5 extra days seem a long time! The meds definitely make me more tired and I know what you mean about the injections. Iโ€™m struggling to find spots where itโ€™s not bruised and sore at the moment. I just take it a day at a time too and keep thinking about why I am doing them x
Is that scan with Care? I wasn't sure of the process after the TWW (if stays a positive). Or how the treatment differs at all for private vs NHS funded cycles.
I only have experience as a private patient but yes scan is at care. Itโ€™s usually about 3 weeks after test date and if all ok they discharge you from there care then x
Fresh Transfer Aug 2020 BFP ๐Ÿ’™
FET #1 Nov 22 MMC
FET #2 June 23 CP
FET #3 Oct 23 MMC
Applecart
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Re: November 2023

LindaLu wrote: โ†‘Wed Nov 15, 2023 7:27 pm My transfer on Tuesday... I really hope it will end up with a baby.
Today my younger brother and his wife announced that their 3rd child is on way. She's 14 weeks.
I feel like a total loser. I really feel low of myself right now.
We just had our baby's funeral in August.
Oh itโ€™s so hard isnโ€™t it and the feelings that come up are horrible. Iโ€™m sorry you are having a tough time but hopefully this time is it for you ๐Ÿคž
Fresh Transfer Aug 2020 BFP ๐Ÿ’™
FET #1 Nov 22 MMC
FET #2 June 23 CP
FET #3 Oct 23 MMC
Banana29
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Re: November 2023

So today was my test day, 3rd transfer, last frozen embryo and one one year since starting IVF.
It was negative. Absolutely gutted. I was hoping sooo much for it to work.

Will be starting again in the new year, thinking about changing clinic, hoping that will change my luck. Any recommendations?

Good everyone who is testing and having the transfers this week.
Nov 2022-10eggs collected, 9 mature, 6 fertilised, 3-five day blastocyst
Dec 2022-1st fresh cycle Ivf/icsi -BFN
May 2023- 2nd fet - BFN
Nov 2023 - 3rd fet -BFN
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

Banana29 wrote: โ†‘Thu Nov 16, 2023 10:07 pm So today was my test day, 3rd transfer, last frozen embryo and one one year since starting IVF.
It was negative. Absolutely gutted. I was hoping sooo much for it to work.

Will be starting again in the new year, thinking about changing clinic, hoping that will change my luck. Any recommendations?

Good everyone who is testing and having the transfers this week.
Oh Banana29, so sorry to hear that ๐Ÿ˜ž.
I don't know any other clinic, I've heard one somewhere Peterborough / Cambridge way, my husband's mate's wife underwent treatment there. I think it starts with B, sorry I don't remember x
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
Banana29
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Re: November 2023

LindaLu wrote: โ†‘Fri Nov 17, 2023 7:58 pm
Banana29 wrote: โ†‘Thu Nov 16, 2023 10:07 pm So today was my test day, 3rd transfer, last frozen embryo and one one year since starting IVF.
It was negative. Absolutely gutted. I was hoping sooo much for it to work.

Will be starting again in the new year, thinking about changing clinic, hoping that will change my luck. Any recommendations?

Good everyone who is testing and having the transfers this week.
Oh Banana29, so sorry to hear that ๐Ÿ˜ž.
I don't know any other clinic, I've heard one somewhere Peterborough / Cambridge way, my husband's mate's wife underwent treatment there. I think it starts with B, sorry I don't remember x
Thank you LindaLu, good luck on Tuesday x
Nov 2022-10eggs collected, 9 mature, 6 fertilised, 3-five day blastocyst
Dec 2022-1st fresh cycle Ivf/icsi -BFN
May 2023- 2nd fet - BFN
Nov 2023 - 3rd fet -BFN
Applecart
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Re: November 2023

So sorry it was a negative Banana29. Hope you can take some time for yourself and do some nice things. Really is so tough xxx
Fresh Transfer Aug 2020 BFP ๐Ÿ’™
FET #1 Nov 22 MMC
FET #2 June 23 CP
FET #3 Oct 23 MMC
LindaLu
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Re: November 2023

Banana29 it's called Bourne Hall IVF Clinic... And thanks!
TTC since '19
1. ET - MMC @ 9w
2. FET - โ„๏ธ - BFN
3. FET - โ„๏ธโ„๏ธ - MMC @ 21w
4. FET - โ„๏ธ- BFP ๐Ÿ™
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