I realised that as soon as I had posted! Her little one stayed up far later than me, I was asleep by half 9!
How are you feeling x
Lol 8pm is max for me!
Am all good thanks still feel nauseous every day but no vomiting and managing to eat fairly regularly
We got to see baby again on Friday and could see facial features.. the difference in 2 weeks was amazing!
Have midwife on Wednesday when am 11 weeks so god knows when the dating scan will be!
How r u and how was Christmas?
Wow, that is incredible! We had scans at 6, 7 and 8 weeks, I'm tempted to book one for 10 weeks but we will see!
I am great thank you. Feeling nauseous but no vomiting so similar to you. My lower back is painful though.
Christmas was wonderful thank you. My dad has said that he doesn't want to have Christmas in England next year and we can go anywhere in the world that I choose (my poor mum wasn't impressed that he said I can choose) but obviously they don't know that we will hopefully have a 3 month old baby then! We will see
Luckybabe37 wrote: ↑Sun Dec 26, 2021 2:06 pm
Not til 5 th jan my care scan but I feel dreadful pains cramps spotting so by rites thy shud see me I get the covid thing but I stil have a life in me so they shid see me. I feel awful can’t get in touch with care they closed and no one picking up the out of hours Line I rang midwife no answer doctors told me on Thursday go hospital yet they won’t have me!! No one cares just Cos it’s xmas yet they get all this mkney from charities to help and make hospital better yet they neglect people that are pregnant!! They can scan from 6 weeks ! They can also scan if bleed any blood shud be checked out doctor says so if owt happens it neglect in my eyes as cud have Bein avoided. Xmas yeah but that don’t mean life stops and neglect all patients. Am soooo stressed out not knowing owt and with how I feel can only think the worse and wen get told ur 6 weeks then 5 then 3 it’s like wtf no one knows owt! I got scan Tuesday anyway so will see what that’s one says talk about stressed I also had a shit Xmas my little one was nawty all day all nite screaming we didn’t open owt Til midnite merry Xmas everyone I can’t wait for it to be over lol !!
I’d keep trying care line and ring the early pregnancy unit and tell them how far you know you are without saying anything else. Hopefully you get answers soon. Uncertainty is so stressful x
Early pregnancy unit can’t and won’t scan me till 4th jan as then they think I will be 6 weeks but av told them 1000 times am already 6 weeks as 5th I go to care then I be 7 weeks idiots they are. They cause pregnant woman so much stress end day there job to look after ya and check for any bleeding no matter what but av git private scan today anyway x
Luckybabe37 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 28, 2021 10:32 am
Early pregnancy unit can’t and won’t scan me till 4th jan as then they think I will be 6 weeks but av told them 1000 times am already 6 weeks as 5th I go to care then I be 7 weeks idiots they are. They cause pregnant woman so much stress end day there job to look after ya and check for any bleeding no matter what but av git private scan today anyway x
Luckybabe37 wrote: ↑Tue Dec 28, 2021 4:24 pm
Had scan am 6 week one day!! We see baby and heartbeat!! Happy and now can relax as got answers such a relief x
Ok so the first private scan was correct.
Congratulations. It's amazing what a difference a few days makes.
I’m OK still very anxious but we will have our answers soon. Still not got any symptoms and still feeling heavy hearted following our recent loss so we will just have to see. Lucky, I think you should be advising people on here not to test early and get early scans following the unnecessary stress it has caused you. Hope everyone is well. X
I don’t think it makes a difference lou wen people test Cos ya get stressed regardless it don’t go away once ya tested it gose on for 9 months. I think there are 99per cent of us that test early ya know that Cos u have done it ya self. What do u do if you don’t test early? Sit each day causing ya self stress Cos ya constantly googling or asking people this or that thinking it’s not worked gettin down about it so if that down and depressed ain’t worked may as well as goin to be like that all way threw so it makes no difference at all. It made me better testing early as it’s a shock waiting all that time for big fat no and I don’t think many listen to others anyway they do what they want and like said 99 per cent women on here have tested early so I say do what want if think not worked anyway and feel shit about ya self test least know instead goin Insane for too weeks for nowt. U got scan tomorrow?
Also I don’t have any signs of bein pregnant I feel normal and I see baby so it don’t matter how u feel end of day ur test say pregnant that is what u are unless proven otherwise. We know wen have a loss how paranoid and scared and crazy we get I had loss in March but I didn’t keep thinking OMG it will happen to this as that causes stress no matter what ya do This whole process is stress! U need to relax forget the past this is present ur having a baby. I find more positive I am more good way it gose gets rid of the bad thoughts. This time with my boy I was sick non stop I got nowt at min and am 6 week 2 days. Care scan next wed x
Hi all
Had my midwife booking in appointment today.. what a palaver!
She booked my 12 week dating scan while I was there and it was around end of Jan so I’d be nearly 16 weeks.. didn’t question it at the time as was feeling so sick so came home and looked at the dates she put and it said I was only 8+3 when I’m 11 weeks today!
Managed to get through to GP and midwife finally rang me back. Explained I was 11 weeks, not 8. She then recalculated dates and said it’s coming up as 11 weeks but when she puts it in system it recalculated it to my last period being when EC was.!
She then manually input it and I’ve now got my dating scan on 5th Jan.. exactly at 12 weeks.. a week today
Excited!!
1st ICSI 2011
DS born on 4.4.2012
2nd ICSI 2014
DD born 19.4.2015
ICSI 3 & 4 2017… both BFN
Trying again - Sept 2021
BFP!! EDD 20/07/2022
BORN 03/05/2022 @ 2lb 14oz
Had my midwife bucking today as well Tazzy lol bloods weight all that done and waiting on call now to buck my scan as wud not give date there. 6 week 2 days today she worked it out rite for once so it’s wait wait now for my care on 5th hope it gose well x
Tazzy wrote: ↑Wed Dec 29, 2021 6:14 pm
Hi all
Had my midwife booking in appointment today.. what a palaver!
She booked my 12 week dating scan while I was there and it was around end of Jan so I’d be nearly 16 weeks.. didn’t question it at the time as was feeling so sick so came home and looked at the dates she put and it said I was only 8+3 when I’m 11 weeks today!
Managed to get through to GP and midwife finally rang me back. Explained I was 11 weeks, not 8. She then recalculated dates and said it’s coming up as 11 weeks but when she puts it in system it recalculated it to my last period being when EC was.!
She then manually input it and I’ve now got my dating scan on 5th Jan.. exactly at 12 weeks.. a week today
Excited!!
Amazing news, well done! A week today is amazing! So pleased for you xx
Luckybabe37 wrote: ↑Wed Dec 29, 2021 6:58 pm
Had my midwife bucking today as well Tazzy lol bloods weight all that done and waiting on call now to buck my scan as wud not give date there. 6 week 2 days today she worked it out rite for once so it’s wait wait now for my care on 5th hope it gose well x
I am not being funny but can you please stick to the positives now? You took the risk of booking and early scan and felt they got the dates wrong which they didn't. You called your early pregnancy unit idiots. Comments like 'she worked it out right for once' aren't helpful on here. This is a very difficult and stressful time for everyone so we need to keep the insults away from here.
You've had some great news so let's just look to the future now.
I don’t see many others sticking to be positive on here!!! Not giving names but there not an second of all epu seed idiots as one they did get my dates wrong! And 2 they shud have seen me for any blood got told that today. Shall I go threw the people and say word for word what they said Cos that don’t sound positive to me! And loads have made comments on here that I don’t think help on here and gived us fear but I don’t moan about it! What I say is the truth
And the sentence got it rite for once how dose that hurt anyone?? It’s nowt like saying am bleeding with massive clots and in sooo much pain that wud scare ya but what I said was fine this group is not all sugar coated like ur making it out to be its for the truth and if people don’t Like it or can’t handle it then maybe shud not be on it
still feel nauseous every day but no vomiting and managing to eat fairly regularly
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hope it gose well x