Hi Lauren I’ve tried to join the facebook group several times over the last couple of days and keep getting my request cancelled or rejected. I only have the option to ‘join’ and then admin must keep rejecting it. I’ve also sent you as admin a facebook message to explain this too, which is delivered...

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I’m doing a FET hopefully this month, it’s my day 1 today.

Is anyone else doing a cycle this month? Would be nice to go through this with others

Hi MSS

Not sure if you are still using the forum but thought I’d let you know that today is day 1 and I’m starting my medication for my FET. I’m so nervous/worried given my previous experiences.

Have you decided if you are doing another cycle and when?

Hi MSS Sorry it’s been a while, I had been struggling a bit so thought taking a break from everything ivf chat was good. I did a couple of counselling sessions with care but I didn’t find them helpful really. I have my first maternal mental health nhs counselling session next week (only 8 months aft...

Hi MSS How are you? Have you had any answers on if you can do your FET for your June cycle? I had my 3D scan and the dr said everything looked fine, uterine cavity, blood flow, lining etc. my lupus blood test came back ok, just waiting for my other blood tests and then the consultant needs to review...

Oh I had 3 sent for testing but only 2 come back ok. I don’t know any details on them though until our appointment on 10th I think. Apparently ok ones can be 80-100% ok so I’m not sure if you get the percentage or how it works. What information did you get? It’s a shame about your thyroid result. Wh...

Hi MSS I’m doing ok, still not heard anything from maternal mental health or fetal medicine. I had my letter from the hospital admitting they did wrong by not putting a cannula in and have changed the protocol for everyone going in for medical management. I’ve also had more blood tests that my care ...

Hi MSS How are you getting on? Have you got everything in place for your transfer? We had our embryos thawed yesterday. They were only able to test 3 out of the 4. Obviously I’d like all of them to be genetically perfect but realistically the odds are 1-2. I want 2 really or 3. I think I’ll be disap...

That’s good news that you have a perfect one and another that you could potentially use. Our care appointment was ok, we are doing the pgt a next week and I have a drs appointment tomorrow to try and get a couple of blood tests done that they want. We have 4 embryos so they think 1-2 might be ok. Ho...

Hi MSS How are you getting on? Have you had your pgt a results yet? How did your consultant appointment today go? We had a call yesterday from the genetics department and they have looked at our situation and full medical history and also close family history too and can’t find anything that links t...

Hi MSS, good to hear from you. How come they could only test half? What happened to the other 3? Why weren’t they able to test those? I’m still waiting for referrals and the hospital report, the bereavement admin lady chased that on 26th march and I was told to expect a call the following day (Fri) ...

I know what you mean about a bit of a cry now and then, it’s just so sad isn’t it. I still haven’t heard from material mental health or received anything from the ward with the internal investigation they said they had to do and that I’d have a copy of the report within a few days, that seems like a...

That’s rubbish about your infection, just what you needed. Hope it’s cleared up for you now. We still haven’t contacted care about embryo testing atm because I’ve not been feeling the best with it all, been more upset, tired etc because of the funeral and that. When you’ve had the embryos frozen do ...

Gosh it just shows how different the treatment is from hospital to hospital. I have always had 1-2 tablets but I’ve always had to stay an hour after having them to make sure I’m not sick, although this last time I was told I could leave 5-10 minutes early at a push because she wasn’t as strict on th...

4 tablets, that seems a lot in one go. I don’t get 4, unless they just do them in different doses. How long did you have to stay in hospital? Were you there the full time or did you go home to pass everything? I only had my chemical at home, my other 3 I had in hospital. Tomorrow will be mixed emoti...

I’m sorry you had to go through all that, it’s really not nice and so gut wrenching the pain in your heart. How did it happen because I normally get 2 lots of medication 48 hours apart and I have no side effects really after the first meds other than just feeling off. If your pregnancy has already c...

How did you get on today MSS? How are you feeling?

It was a very hard day but the service was nice. My parents and my partners mum went too so upsetting for all. The hospital phoned the other day to say they have had to do an internal investigation due to my severe blood loss and look at what went wrong and how they could improve it in the future. I...

I’m not looking forward to tomorrow. Obviously don’t want to be at my child’s funeral, I’d rather have her happy and healthy but it’s not an option. What nurse do you mean? The care one? I haven’t heard from care since my loss weeks ago. Yes on people who have gone through ivf totally get it but equ...

I had to do pesseries 3 times a day and gel twice so I know what you mean with side effects. No amount of pesseries are going to make it work though so reducing to 1 is better for you but equally you know you are giving it a go with using them to please EPU. The letter went well and we spent 30 minu...

This is very true, EPU do not treat ivf pregnancies differently. They work on their dates even though you know exact dates and my care clinic just said ignore their dates because they are wrong and that at 12 weeks you just go with that although they were at most 2 days out with all my pregnancies I...

Yes it was difficult to find the right words but nothing I can write is going to be enough to be honest, she’s my daughter and this just shouldn’t happen so what can I put to tell her how much she means because words aren’t enough. Did you say your last results were about 14500 2 weeks ago? What wer...

I remember being told that being more than a week behind at that sort of stage is a bad sign so guard your heart. It’s good that they have seen more but equally if everything is going really slowly then it’s just making it harder for you in the long run. You are just constantly in limbo aren’t you. ...

Wow that was not what you expected. Surely they know that you would be dating really far behind now though so although they have seen more being behind would still not be good. It’s good they are testing your hcg and double checking with a scan but like you say are they getting your hopes up to go t...

Hi MSS

How are you holding up? Has anything started yet or have you been seen again?